Top sex positions 

Okay, "top" sex positions are really subjective and depend on what you and your partner(s) enjoy! What works for one couple might not for another. The best positions are those that are comfortable, pleasurable, and consensual for everyone involved.

However, here are some popular and often well-liked positions, along with why they're frequently enjoyed:

Missionary:

How: One partner lies on their back, the other on top, facing each other.

Why it's liked: Great for kissing, eye contact, and intimacy. Can be varied with pillows under the hips for deeper penetration or different angles.

Cowgirl / Reverse Cowgirl:

How: One partner lies on their back, the other sits astride them, either facing towards them (Cowgirl) or away (Reverse Cowgirl).

Why it's liked: Allows the partner on top to control the depth and pace of penetration. Can be excellent for clitoral stimulation, especially in Cowgirl if grinding is incorporated.

Doggy Style:

How: One partner is on their hands and knees (or leaning over furniture), and the other enters from behind.

Why it's liked: Can allow for deep penetration and G-spot or P-spot stimulation. Also frees up hands for other types of caressing.

Spooning:

How: Both partners lie on their sides, facing the same direction, with one partner behind the other, entering from the rear.

Why it's liked: Very intimate and relaxed. Good for when you're tired or want a less energetic session. Allows for cuddling and closeness.

Standing Positions:

How: Many variations! One partner might stand while the other wraps their legs around them, or one partner might lean against a wall or furniture.

Why it's liked: Can be exciting and adventurous. Often involves a bit of strength and balance, adding a different dynamic.

The Lotus (or Seated Lap Dance):

How: One partner sits cross-legged, and the other sits on their lap, facing them, wrapping their legs around their partner's torso.

Why it's liked: Extremely intimate, with lots of eye contact, kissing, and full-body closeness. Allows for a slow, sensual rhythm.

Scissoring (often for vulva-to-vulva contact):

How: Partners lie facing each other, wrapping their legs together, allowing their genitals to rub.

Why it's liked: Great for mutual clitoral stimulation. Very intimate.

Key things to remember for ANY position:

Communication: Talk to your partner(s)! What feels good? What doesn't?

Consent: Enthusiastic consent is crucial for every act, every time.

Experimentation: Don't be afraid to try new things or variations of familiar positions.

Comfort: If something hurts, stop or adjust. Pillows can be your best friend for support and achieving better angles.

Lubrication: Can make almost any position more comfortable and pleasurable.

The "top" positions are ultimately the ones you discover and enjoy together!